Ok, so I thought I would have a read of my earlier posts and it is remarkable how far I have come. The more reading I have done about covert narcissists, and more specifically vulnerable narcissists the more I can see the techniques being used against me. I did the personality test thingy and I came out ENFP-T which basically means that I am a people person, and have a lot of empathy. Also, I am very resilient, and can just get on with things, which I now find is what made me a target.
The evidence is before my eyes in my earlier blog posts. How I so wanted to believe he is actually sorry, or actually wants to improve himself, and yet other behavious actually detailed in these pages, tells me that he does not…he is happy with the arrangement…why else would he walk around the house with a merry whistle or little song, whilst I am holed up in my bedroom because I don’t want to spend the evening with him?
Sara's Narcissus and Other Stories 